The Simple Appointment Reminder Fix That Can Instantly Reduce Dental No-Shows
No-shows are one of the most frustrating (and expensive) problems in dentistry.
You do the marketing.
You fill the schedule.
And then… patients don’t show up.
In a recent No BS Dental Growth Podcast episode, Chris Pistorius shared a surprisingly simple growth hack that many practices overlook: the way your appointment reminders sound.
Most dental offices are unintentionally pushing patients away — not because of bad service, but because their reminders feel cold, robotic, and impersonal.
Let’s break down why that happens — and how to fix it fast.
Why Most Dental Appointment Reminders Backfire
Take a look at the typical reminder message most practices send:
“Your appointment is on Tuesday at 10:00 AM. Reply C to confirm.”
It’s efficient… but it doesn’t feel human.
These messages often come across as:
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Robotic
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Demanding
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Slightly threatening (“confirm or else”)
And that tone creates friction instead of reassurance.
When patients feel pressure or discomfort — even subconsciously — they’re more likely to ignore the message or avoid responding altogether.
The Human-Sounding Reminder That Changes Everything
Instead of sounding like a system notification, your reminders should sound like a real person who cares.
Here’s a simple example Chris shared:
❌ Old way:
“Your appointment is on Tuesday at 10:00 AM. Reply C to confirm.”
✅ Better way:
“Hi Sarah! We’re excited to see you Tuesday at 10:00 AM. If anything comes up, just reply here — we’re happy to help.”
That small change does three powerful things:
1. It Reassures Patients
The tone is calm, friendly, and welcoming — not demanding.
2. It Increases Confirmations
Patients are more likely to respond when it feels easy and conversational.
3. It Reduces Last-Minute Cancellations
If something comes up, patients are far more likely to give a heads-up instead of ghosting.
Don’t Skip the Morning-Of Reminder
Another overlooked opportunity is the day-of appointment reminder.
Instead of a generic alert, try something like:
“Good morning, Emily! We’ll see you at 11:00 today. Drive safe and let us know if you need anything.”
This creates what Chris calls a “micro moment of trust.”
Before the patient even walks through the door, they already feel:
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Cared for
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Remembered
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Supported
That emotional connection matters more than most practices realize.
The Big Takeaway: Stop Nagging, Start Building Trust
Great appointment reminders aren’t about nagging patients.
They’re about:
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Building trust
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Reducing anxiety
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Making patients feel taken care of before they arrive
And the best part?
You don’t need new software.
You don’t need automation upgrades.
You don’t need an agency.
You can start today by simply rewriting your reminder templates.
One Small Change = Immediate Impact
If your practice is struggling with no-shows, this is one of the fastest wins you can implement.
Human-sounding reminders:
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Increase confirmations
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Reduce no-shows
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Improve the patient experience
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Make your practice feel more personal and professional
Sometimes growth doesn’t come from doing more — it comes from saying things better.
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